achilles owning a shirt that says ‘if lost return to patroclus’ and patroclus owning the ‘i am patroclus’ shirt

i love those shirts because alone they make no sense. You’re patroclus ? good for you man.

It keeps people from thinking he’s Achilles and murdering him

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Sorry I was late to class today professor I was busy achieving one of my life goals…

…Making it onto another neopets high score table. Ten year old me would have been very proud of twenty year old me.

(Hasee Bounce, what up)

oops i just saw this. Congrats! :P



I bet Marc Antony could make fetch happen. 

Friends, Romans, countrymen, lend me your ears;
I come to bury Caesar, not to praise him.
The evil that men do lives after them;
The good is oft interred with their bones;
So let it be with Caesar. The noble Brutus
Hath told you Caesar was ambitious:
If it were so, it was a grievous fault,
And grievously hath Caesar answer’d it.
Here, under leave of Brutus and the rest—
For Brutus is sooo fetch;
So are they all, all fetch—
Come I to speak in Caesar’s funeral.
He was my friend, faithful and just to me:
But Brutus says he was ambitious;
And Brutus is sooo fetch.
He hath brought many captives home to Rome
Whose ransoms did the general coffers fill:
Did this in Caesar seem ambitious?
When that the poor have cried, Caesar hath wept:
Ambition should be made of sterner stuff:
Yet Brutus says he was ambitious;
And Brutus is sooo fetch.
You all did see that on the Lupercal
I thrice presented him a kingly crown,
Which he did thrice refuse: was this ambition?
Yet Brutus says he was ambitious;
And, sure, he is so very fetch.
I speak not to disprove what Brutus spoke,
But here I am to speak what I do know.
You all did love him once, not without cause:
What cause withholds you then, to mourn for him?
O judgment! thou art fled to brutish beasts,
And men have lost their reason. Bear with me;
My heart is in the coffin there with Caesar,
And I must pause till it come back to me.


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**This is the last week to order a physical copy of Ignition Zero!!**

Ignition Zero is my webcomic about a bunch of friends who get mixed up in a fight between two powerful spirits, as well as mixed up in local Faery politics! The cast is diverse in sexual orientation, gender identity, race, ethnicity, socioeconomic status, and more, although the story is about none of those things! Includes: two asexual main characters, and maybe some romance? Hmm?

I cannot pay for the books up front so the only sure way to get one is to pre-order it. Profits will go towards buying stock for the online store, but it won’t be much!

All pre-orders come with an exclusive print of Neve & Ivory, regardless of whether you buy Volume 1, 2, or both! Only way to ever get this print! 



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The fanbook by palalife just arrived!

The fanbook by palalife just arrived!



Japanese Food Porn

the bear all tucked in!!!

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…those look like they should be edible.

…those look like they should be edible.

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Wow its literally Shipping: the card game

Wow its literally Shipping: the card game



huh. it’s grey-asexual but not grey-aromantic, and it’s grey-romantic but not grey-sexual?

i mean i don’t think those are The Rules but they seem to be chosen 95% of the time

(more reasons why i prefer simply “grey,” fuck binary-poled spectra and aligning with one side even in a word that says the sides are insufficient)

I don’t really see grey-aromantic/grey-romantic used enough to have noticed a pattern either way, but if it is true I actually wonder if it might be  because of linguistic patterns (and ease of pronunciation), at least partially?

Specifically i mean the stress patterns for each word - asexual has primary stress on the second syllable (a-SEX-ual*), whereas aromantic has primary stress on the third syllable/secondary stress on the first syllable (A-ro-MAN-tic).

When adding the “Grey-” prefix, it’s usually becomes the primary stressed syllable (at least when i pronounce it), which makes “grey-aromantic” a little hard to say because it has two stressed syllables butting heads, complicated by the fact that the “A” of romantic is identical to the “ay” of gray - so instead of “GRAY-A-ro-MAN-tic” (which is just such an awkward stress pattern) its really easy to just blend it into “GRAY-ro-MAN-tic”. 

Gray-asexual doesn’t really have this problem though, since asexual doesn’t begin with a stressed syllable.

I’m curious, how do other people pronounce each of these terms?


*as far as i can tell i tend to slur the -ual into one syllable, but i’m not 100% sure on this.

**also note I’m basing these only on how i pronounce things - it would be interesting to see whether these hold with other people’s pronunciations or if there are other trends. This isn’t a particularly rigorous analysis, so take everything i say with a grain of salt.

***This also doesn’t fully explain the trend in written posts, though people’s mental pronunciations will certainly impact their choice to some extent.

****There probaby are still other influence at play to some extant - for example, grey-A is enough of an established term that definitely affects how “greysexual” has fallen out of favor, but gray-aromantic/grey-romantic is still more up in the air, which may be part of the reason that there’s more variation.

*****I also wonder if people who identify as grey-romantic ever use the term “grey-ro”/”greyro”? Or would it still just be “Grey-aro”? or just not abbreviated?

I think I have a couple of linguisticy followers here, does this seem feasibly correct at all you?


the gender police sent me a letter telling me to cease and decis

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Today’s arts and crafts project. Still have miles of cardboard leftover - any suggestions?

Today’s arts and crafts project. Still have miles of cardboard leftover - any suggestions?

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